Wednesday, December 31, 2014

New Year's Right




"Sing to the Lord, all the earth, proclaim good tidings of His salvation from day to day.  Tell of His glory among the nations, His wonderful deeds among all the peoples.

"For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; He also is to be feared above all gods, for all the gods of the peoples are idols, but the Lord made the heavens.

"Splendour and majesty are before Him, strength and joy are in His place.  Ascribe to the Lord, O families of the peoples, ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.

"Ascribe to the Lord the glory due His name; bring an offering, and come before Him; worship the Lord in holy array.  Tremble before Him, all the earth; indeed, the world is firmly established, it will not be moved.  Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth rejoice; and let them say among the nations, 'The Lord reigns.'

Let the sea roar, and all it contains.  Let the field exult, and all that is in it.  Then the trees of the forest will sing for joy before the Lord.  For He is coming to judge the earth.  O give thanks to the Lord for He is good; for His lovingkindness is everlasting." I Chronicles 16:23-34


Tucked in the two pages of one of my favourite passages is an invitation to a business function.  On the back of it, I wrote:

"A wrongdoer is often a person who has left something undone, 
not always that he has done something."  - Marcus Aurelius

This seemed especially important for me as I start the New Year.  Perhaps it will bless your heart as well...nothing like a clean slate!

Some of us have felt so wronged for so long that it's hard to even imagine ourselves on the other end of the pointed stick.

We are so conditioned to the victim's role we have a hard time recognising our own aggression.  But many of us play both roles, whether actively or passively, directly or indirectly.  We all have apologies to make. 

Because we have chronically thought of ourselves as being owed rather than owing apologies, we are not very skillful at asking for forgiveness.  The simple words, 'I am sorry.  I was wrong,: don't come easily to any of us.

More than others, we may tend to justify our wrongs because of all the wrongs that HAVE been done to us.  But it is essential to recovery that we learn to take responsibility when we have hurt others. 

By promptly and honestly admitting our mistakes, we exercise healthy humility and knock down another barrier between ourselves and the rest of humanity. 


Withheld apologies are unpaid debts.  Paying our debts is not a matter of weakness, it is a clear-cut matter of responsibility.

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