"Sing to the Lord, all the
earth, proclaim good tidings of His salvation from day to day. Tell of His glory among the nations, His
wonderful deeds among all the peoples.
"For great is the Lord, and
greatly to be praised; He also is to be feared above all gods, for all the gods
of the peoples are idols, but the Lord made the heavens.
"Splendour and majesty are
before Him, strength and joy are in His place.
Ascribe to the Lord, O families of the peoples, ascribe to the Lord
glory and strength.
"Ascribe to the Lord the glory
due His name; bring an offering, and come before Him; worship the Lord in holy
array. Tremble before Him, all the
earth; indeed, the world is firmly established, it will not be moved. Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth
rejoice; and let them say among the nations, 'The Lord reigns.'
Let the sea roar, and all it
contains. Let the field exult, and all
that is in it. Then the trees of the
forest will sing for joy before the Lord.
For He is coming to judge the earth.
O give thanks to the Lord for He is good; for His lovingkindness is
everlasting." I
Chronicles 16:23-34
Tucked in
the two pages of one of my favourite passages is an invitation to a business
function. On the back of it, I wrote:
"A
wrongdoer is often a person who has left something undone,
not always that he
has done something." - Marcus
Aurelius
This seemed
especially important for me as I start the New Year. Perhaps it will bless your heart as
well...nothing like a clean slate!
Some of us
have felt so wronged for so long that it's hard to even imagine ourselves on
the other end of the pointed stick.
We are so
conditioned to the victim's role we have a hard time recognising our own
aggression. But many of us play both
roles, whether actively or passively, directly or indirectly. We all have apologies to make.
Because we
have chronically thought of ourselves as being owed rather than owing
apologies, we are not very skillful at asking for forgiveness. The simple words, 'I am sorry. I was wrong,: don't come easily to any of us.
More than
others, we may tend to justify our wrongs because of all the wrongs that HAVE
been done to us. But it is essential to
recovery that we learn to take responsibility when we have hurt others.
By promptly
and honestly admitting our mistakes, we exercise healthy humility and knock
down another barrier between ourselves and the rest of humanity.
Withheld
apologies are unpaid debts. Paying our
debts is not a matter of weakness, it is a clear-cut matter of responsibility.
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